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Trusting Your Gut
We have all heard the saying “trust your gut.” Your gut might have different meanings for different people, but it basically means that you need to trust your instincts. Why do we need to trust our instincts? Didn’t we evolve to have a higher level of thought, reasoning, and intellect? Yes, and that’s typically the…
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Honest Liars
The one act I hate that people do is lie. I mean, there are little white lies designed to not hurt someone’s feelings. “Do I look fat in this?” The answer is ALWAYS “No” even if that isn’t the truth. I’m not talking about those types of lies. I’m talking about lies that aren’t necessary.…
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Is Love a Drug?
There are so many cliché anecdotes about love being a drug. The question, though, is, well is it? Before we get into that, we need to understand the difference love and infatuation. They seem similar on the surface, but there is a bit of a difference between the two. We also need to look at…
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Oblivious
How do people go through life being so completely oblivious to everyday things? I hear water running in the upstairs bathroom from the kitchen. “I hear water running.” I get a reply of, “I turned everything off.” “Is the toilet still running?” “Uh… I don’t know.” Of course, the toilet was running. Update: 15 minutes…
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Notification of Termination
How do you tell someone you’re done? How do you tell them their services are no longer needed? As with everything in life, it depends on the situation for sure. Firing someone because their work ethics are horrible is a lot easier that telling someone you’ve been with for years that it’s time to move…
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Make or Break
I cannot get over how a single conversation can either make or break a mood, or even a day. A conversation with one person might put you in the most foul mood you’ve ever experience. It could fill you with sadness and despair. You couldn’t have imagined this person could ever be so selfish, or…
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Fixers
By nature, men are fixers. Need food? Let me go kill that deer, and we’ll eat. That bear threatening our home? Let me go shoot it in the face and make a nice rug out of it. There’s a pipe leaking? Let me fix that. It’s what we do (in the classical sense. I have…
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Fair Share Oblivious
The more and more I look around the house, the more shit I see of things people used but were too lazy to put back up. The sweeper died after 10 minutes? Well, it’s not designed to sweep the entire house, just a room and charge it. Where is that sweeper at? Leaning against the…
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Conversations
Have you ever had one of those conversations that gets to the core of your soul? Raw, but not brutal. Insightful without being preachy. A conversation that holds on so deeply that you are still thinking about it, even through your dreams? Yeah, those are about as rare as actual evidence of Bigfoot, but God…
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Brutal Days
Some days are physically exhausting, while other days are mentally exhausting. This doesn’t even include days that are emotionally exhausting. If you get all three days in a row, you are just plain fucked. I haven’t had all three in about a week. Today was mentally and emotionally exhausting. I love puzzles, and I love…